Confidence...the theme for life

Confidence.....This the word which is mostly heard in my ear these days....
let me share what I have understood...

Confidence is the main feeling which is the main gamer behind wisdom, will power, love, hate, etc..,It is the feeling which gives the power to conquer the world......and when you are confident,it is easily noticeable in the face as you will be different from your daily looks!

You will have "the shine" in your eyes.When confidence is earned by anyone, people around them,they are not even noticeable to that person.He walks as if there is something...somewhere waiting just for him,and he has to attend its need as soon as possible.....!!

ANOTHER WAY:-
Confidence is such a sadist!once it has gone inside our brain, even when we strivr, we will never get it out!.....It is the most stubborn feeling in all of the human feelings!

Any person lacking that feeling, in today's world lands no-where but remains the way he is.....scared and not-so-open type...!

Let me share a incident with you(this is not hurt anyone’s feelings):

There was boy in the big city, Hyderabad, AP.Well,he was studying 1st grade in one of the famous schools in Hyderabad.He was from a middle class family!Well,his parents thought they may have a problem of satisfying his equality among all the other rich....they were happy because he has earned the seat in that school out of 2 lakh children!

Nice,everything was going fine and smooth......according to the parents.But what the child is facing,even he couldn't guess....!!

The problem was his friends....they never mixed him with them.But then,he loved enjoyment!So,when ever they used to come near him and talk & tell him to some work,he did it!......Everything is fine as per the picture....but then in his house,he had to undergo a lot of mental stress.....he kept his own work aside....and then worked on the that thing which was given to him by the so-called "friends".....this was observed by his father.....his father told him once,...twice.....thrice......then scolded him,he gave back answers.....!!!(the boy is grown up!)

Though parents tried,.....he lived in the false world of his own silently.....the boy is no more a boy but a guy!......he still thinks that these guys are very good friends of his!!.....many a times  he got a question.....WHY SHOULD ONLY I DO THIS????......but he was so scared that he may loose his friendship.......He kept everything silently......not only money,his time,......they played with his feelings......

After their 10th grade,......each one went into different inter collages.....(nice to hear)...........after 3 months,the guy gets to know that not everyone has gone into different collages but......they have gone as groups like....5-6 members in one collage and 4-5 in other one and other batch in other collage........and he was the only one left without information.......still this guy doesn't feel bad!!!.......they had played with his feelings so much that he forgot how to feel bad or how to feel good........He still lived in his own world.........and these guys neglected him so much that they isolated him........this guy used to call thinking they are friends.....they used to reject....every time........

Now,finished inter,at least now they must talk na!

They spoke.....but now,the guy found a real friend in himself......"CONFIDENCE is my name"he said.......from then,the guy and himself(confidence) became the best-of-friends.......now,his feelings are alive,no fear,he has questioned his "so-called-friends"and the reply was nothing.......

He knew what to do.......he neglected them,went in search of his interest......discovered that he loves talking and he can make people laugh........and so,he went to a guy who has the interests.....and found him dull.....just like him in his schooling......but he was the opposite in those days itself.........went to him,spoke out.....all his anger and then he spoke out his fear,......changing to anger and then.....hahaha......its all laughter time.......!!!!

He is now,open minded,a very good public speaker,and a Joker.........this is all he wanted to become!!!!

ENJOY YOUR LIFE.......WITH CONFIDENCE........THAT WILL GIVE THE REALITY........